Henrietta
O'Connor and Clare Madge (2001) 'Cyber-Mothers: Online
Synchronous Interviewing using Conferencing Software'
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Received: 17/3/2000 Accepted: 22/1/2001 Published: 28/2/2001
'...the immense inner sense of security that comes with discovering that real people - most of them parents, some of them nurses, doctors and midwives are available, around the clock if you need them' (p.16).
Guidelines
We want the interview to flow as much as possible and for you to feel that you can contribute exactly what you want to the discussion - almost as if we were having a conversation. However, we think it might be worth mentioning a few guidelines prior to starting the discussion.
1) as this is an `interview' we do have some topics that we would like to cover and we will probably use these to guide the discussion. However, please feel free to ask questions yourselves and to raise any topics that you think are relevant that we have not mentioned- but do try and stick as much as possible to the theme of the Internet and parenting;
2) it may take a while for the response you send to appear on screen - a good technique to speed the process up is to press return frequently, i.e. send the text every few words - don't wait till you have a complete sentence. Because of this the discussion may get a bit 'jumbled'. If this happens we may need to intervene;
3) this virtual interview is an 'experiment' and we anticipate there may be teething problems - we apologise for this in advance!
Do you have any questions before we start the discussion?
Hen and Clare: Rowena[5] - do you do much shopping on-line?
Henrietta and: and Barbara - have you ever shopped on-line?
Rowena: not much - usually books and nappies!
Hen and Clare: I didn't even knmow you could get nappies on-line!
Barbara: I can't say I have. It is useful to see what is available but I'm paranoid about security!
Rowena: from canada - they are cheaper - reusables
Hen and Clare: that's useful info
Rowena: most credit card payments are through a secure server
Hen and Clare: Do you find that you use the discussions for info. or for support from other parents?
Rowena: both really
Hen and Clare: and do you ever contribute to discussions or initiate them?
Rowena: both again!
Barbara: same here, it is nice to be able to offer advice too
Hen and Clare: yes that's true
Hen and Clare: are you happy with the info. you receive there?
Hen and Clare: does it compare well with info from elsewhere (gp, health visitor, mother etc.)
First of all we thought it would be a good idea to introduce ourselves.Hi, I'm Henrietta. I have a daughter called Alicia who will be 2 in July. I am 30 years old, white and I work full-time at Leicester University as a lecturer on a distance learning course. I came back to work when Alicia was 3 months old and she has gone to the nearby nursery full-time since then. At work we rely on the Internet a great deal. Many of the students live in different parts of the world and use email to communicate and we also use Hotline to talk to them. When I first came back to work I found that I also used the Internet a lot to look for information and advice about being a new parent.
Hello everyone. I'm Clare and I have a daughter called Isabelle who is nearly 2 as well. I work in the geography department of Leicester University on a 3-day contract and Isabelle is in a local community nursery on those days. I am 35 years old, white and my partner is a psychiatric nurse. I don't use the Internet very often because I am so busy at work and I don't have computer access at home.
Hen and Clare: Hi Amy, Hi Kerry, welcome to the chat - could you tell us a bit more about yourselves?
Amy.: I'm Amy. I have a son called James who was 1 last month. I went back to work as a computer programmer when he was 4 mths - he started with his aunt, but now goes to a nursery full time. I tend to surf the net at the weekend (well more before James, really), but find it really useful for finding people in the same boat!
Amy.: Oh - 33 years old, white and my husband is a draughtsman - workign[6] at the same company as me.
Kerry: Hello. I'm 22 and have 2 kids. Lisa is 3 and Marie is 8 months. I am a full time mum. My partner Tom is a computer programmer.
Hen and Clare: Thanks for that.
'Women are almost always enthusiastic about talking to a woman researcher, even if they have some initial anxieties about the purpose of the research or their own 'performance' in the interview situation'.
'...in most cases, the goal of finding out about people through interviewing is best achieved when the relationship of interviewer and interviewee is non-hierarchical and when the interviewer is prepared to invest his or her personal identity in the relationship'.
Kerry: When I first became a mum I found the enormity of it all very overwhelming
Hen and Clare: yes, we would agree with what you have both said ... but add trying not to laugh at their tantrums
Hen and Clare: us too
Kerry: Or trying not to scream and cry along with them
Amy.: Yes, it's so tricky not to laugh when they've done somethign you don't want to encourage!
Amy.: I spent ages worrying that I didn't have the "telepathy" all mums are supposed to have. I did in the end, but I was too busy panicking to realise!
Kerry: There are times when you have got to laugh or you would cry
Amy.: Especially when you're covered in gloppy food!
Kerry: I hope all new mums panic cause I still do sometimes
Hen and Clare: we still do too
Kerry: I know that feeling
Amy.: God, yes!!! Every sniff is a major illness, if he's sleeping noisily I'm worried that he's uncomfortable and if he's sleeping quietly - it worries me even more!!!
Hen and Clare: did the fact that we were both new mums influence your decision to take part? or were there other reasons?
Kerry: I like doing anything that involves parenting although it was nice to know that you would understand my experiences
Amy .: It did help - talking to people who haven't experienced it themselves is never satisfactory really. Also, I wanted to do my bit to help, as other people have helped me in this new experience.
'Without visual clues about gender, age, ethnicity and social status conversations open up in directions which otherwise might be avoided. Participants in these virtual communities often express themselves with little inhibition and dialogues flourish and develop quickly' (p.90).
'...provides social spaces that are purportedly free of the constraints of the body, you are accepted on the basis of your written words, not what you look like or sound like or where you live' (Kitchin, 1998, p.387).
Amy.: I feel better askign BW[7] than my health visitor as they're not goign to see how bad I am at housekeeping!!!
Kerry: I feel the same. Like the HV[8] is judging even though she says she isn't
Kerry: Although my HV has been a life line as I suffer from PND[9]
Amy.: Also, there are some things that are so little that you don't want to feel like you're wasting anyone's time. Askign the HV or GP might get in the way of something mroe important, whereas sending an e-mail, the person can answer it when convenient
Amy.: My HV is very good, but her voice does sound patronising. I'msure she doesn't mean it, but it does get to me...
Kerry: Being anon means that you don't get embarassed asking about a little point or something personal
'...don't do well in spontaneous spoken conversation but turn out to have valuable contributions to make ...These people ...can find written communication more authentic that the face-to-face kind. Who is to say that this preference for one mode of communication - informal written text - is somehow less authentically human than audible speech?'
Rachel: my replies will be a bit slower from now on as E-J has just woken for a feed so i'm typing one handed!
Rowena: i always have Nicola with me - she's here now - asleep on my other arm - that's why I'm on the net a lot I can hold her and type
2Of the 16 respondents who agreed to be interviewed only 1 was male. However, he did not 'arrive' at the arranged time of interview, hence all interviewees in the end were female.
3 More information about the Hotline Connect Software which was used is available from the Hotline website. This can be found at: <<http://www.bigredh.com>>
4Details of the installation guidelines may be obtained by writing to the authors.
5All names have been changed for confidentiality.
6Typing and spelling errors have been retained in the transcripts in the same way that transcripts of face-to-face interviews are recorded verbatim.
7BW was the abbreviation used to denote Babyworld.
8HV is the abbreviation used for health visitor.
9PND stands for Post Natal Depression.
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